Disappointment?!

So, I am trying sooooooo hard not to get disappointed in things right now. My fiance and I are planning our honeymoon, most people would be excited to do this. We are to, but I am trying to be as cheap as possible ( i mean like week under 500 cheap) and my fiance wants to celebrate the fact that we just got married, and I do too, I just don't wanna have to break the bank to do it.

The reason I came to this conclusion is this, we are currently behind on our bills, not a lot but behind. We will be almost caught up with this upcoming pay period. We will have about 1000 to spend on our honeymoon, not alot of wiggle room. There is this awesome resort that will cost us about $1000 for three days (did you gasp here? I sure as hell did) but it includes EVERYTHING to food, we get champagne, chocolates and a jacuzzi room and it's in the Okanagan Valley. So my fiance and I had a small fight because that's our entire budget gone in three days and we booked off the entire week. So after I left to come back home (I visited him at work) it hit kinda hit me that bills will always be there, they will always expect money month after month after month, money will leave and it will come back again. Some months more money comes in than it goes out, but you will only get married once. So I kinda thought that why don't we splurge for the three days and then come home and relax? We can go for picnics, midnight walks and play video games and probably get drunk. Or hell even take a very detoured way of getting home and see what happens. I'm trying not to ruin what is supposed to be the happiest day of my life over something that is going to come and go periodically.